ULTIMATE GUIDE TO BE A CHARMER

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HOW TO BE LIKED BY PEOPLE


Do you know anyone who always seems to be liked by everyone, whose appearance somehow warms your heart, or someone who you can't hate, no matter what!? Well I know a few people like them and I always seem to envy them, so after many observations of their characteristics, I started improving myself, and now I have visibly noticed people appreciating my presence. Hence I decided to share a 15 tips with you guys so that you to become a very lovable person.    

I honestly don't know why i decided to put Leonardo DiCaprio's picture.
 Maybe cause I think he's kinda charming.

  • Walk with your head held high - Your shoes won't go anywhere but the people passing by will. Plus if they know you they might think you're doing it on purpose to avoid them or because you're shy and constraint.

  • Stand tall - When talking to someone maintain a good posture, it makes one look smart and healthy. also don't fidget with stuff or keep your hands in your pocket, it make one look nervous of something and closed.
  • Smile - A good and warm smile makes you more approachable.

  • Say Hello - A good greeting makes people feel acknowledged and special. If are in a different country or know a person who is well versed with their native language, learn to tell them hello in that language. you can also add variations.

  • Learn people's name - Remembering a person's name shows that you notice others genuinely and are interested.

  • Get out of your way - Help others even when they don't ask, or do special and sweet things for them. It makes a person think good about you.

  • Have a positive mental attitude and let it be seen by others - Not everyone wants to hear gossips or a negative and narrow-minded thought, people easily get bored of it.

  • Listen - Everyone wants to speak and be heard, hence you need to listen to what the other person has to say, instead of dominating the conversation.

  • Speak in a carefully disciplined, friendly tone - The way you speak tells a lot about you. Do not blabber or speak rudely and loudly.

  • Be genuinely interested in speaking to them, or at least act as if you are speaking to the most important person in the world - Everyone wants to feel special and likes the person who makes them feel that way.

  • Be patient and maintain composure always - Your capacity to be calm in every situation shows how wise you are and also makes people easier to talk to you.

  • Appreciate cristisism - Criticism is an important part of learning therfore if anyone one corrects you, accept it. Do not shout at them and act like a spoil sport, max. if you don't think they're right correct them or listen, nod and do what you want to do.

  • Praise genuinely without being excessive 
  • Don't lie - Lying is the fastest and ultimate way to be detested by people. It makes them think you're fake and distrustful.

  • Say 'Thank you' 
BONUS : BE YOURSELF - Not everyone is going to like you. Plus if people like you let it be "you" not an artificial person of you, though improving your attitude for the core is good.
You can also check out 'How to be good at communication skills' to create a better image. I hope this article helps you out in pleasing people around you and have a good image. If it did please write down your experience, I would love to hear from you. Also if you have any other ideas share it with me, or write down on what basis do you judge a person in order to like a person, and your thoughts on it!

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